I agreed with words to fix my Condo until I died. He died before, and his wife wanted money. What do I do?

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Dear for love and money,

I agreed with my son that I paid for her $ 2,000 month to hire her Condo. I have paid the rent in front of the amount of $ 200,000, so I can live in about 10 punishment or until I die.

I did this because I 88, I can’t see, and I have time hell to do business online. The first payment made my life bad.

Soon, my son died. His wife wants to get $ 200,000, which is currently available. Should I make a new agreement with a woman, or ask her to return the payments that are not used to sign the real rental agreement? Can he force me and save money?

Clearly,

Zeroed out

Dear Zeroed Out,

I am very sorry for your loss. No parent has ever hidden a child. I can think about you so much.

Grief to discourage us, because no matter if not a bad reminder that we are in control? This is known as painful pain is intimidating, to the point of paranoia sometimes. It can cause us to see faithful loved ones as cooks.

I don’t know if it is with your daughter-in-law. You did not say your relationship with her look like that, but that relationship, either in a relationship, supporting, or not the answer to your question.

You paid for your son all the rental rent, and that the money belongs to his wife. There is no rental agreement, with technology, you can kick you and save money.

However, with a great call I have ever asked for, I have set hard for renting their money, and I lifted them up in the street, especially when a 88-year-old man lifted her up.

To do so, it will have to be truly strong. Was your son married to such a person? If the answer is no, I don’t think you need to worry about your living condition.

If you don’t know well, start with a more formal contract. You can stabilize it as an unbroken work – the item and your son who is always intended to arrive but never.

Remember, though, that both of you are grieving. She lost her husband. You died your son. There are fewer, if there is, some people in the world with her losses as two as two. As you work to solve income financial problems, Health Insuranceand a design of goods, try working in it. Use discomfort and difficulty – a damage and otherwise – walking with it to move close.

As you discuss his plans, Condo will appear. You will be encouraged by what she tells that, or you’ll know you start looking for a new part of unused payments. In any way, the dialogue will grow in the friendly soil and second support, not anxiety and mistrust.

If you are near your daughter-in-law with your daughter to be sure you are honest, you can go out and ask your son. As long as you can’t charge or make him angry with his decision, I will understand your decision to clarify your living condition.

Even if you decide to solve it, remember that your peace of mind doesn’t have to eat a kid. Your son would not want for you.

To quote you,

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